i'm really discouraged

about the amount of hate and negativity at trans men and trans boys in our tags. like, outside irl isn’t a safe space, so shouldnt online be one? shouldnt the trans man tag be a safe place? i just dont get why we’re not allowed to have a space without other people trying to shit all over it (dont even get me started on the “boys are gross! trans boys are disgusting!” posts i’ve seen floating around smh)