Please don't settle

Coming out while in a relationship is wildly difficult for your partner but you don’t have to settle for a long term crappy reaction. My boyfriend identified as straight before I came out. Now he identifies as bisexual (although i sometimes i feel almost guilty that he changed his identity for me) and he doesnt take anyones shit about ‘oooh but he has a vagina so are you really gay¿?’ My point is, there are so many great people who will accept and love you and wont let labels of the sexuality be an issue between you so If you feel like your partner isnt respecting your identity with their sexual label, it isnt the worst thing in the world to confront them about it.

i hate myself

I hate myself. I hate myself for being born female. I hate myself for being trans. I hate myself bcs the way I am has ruined my relationship & I'm too dependent on her to do anything about it. I love her and keep hoping things will go back to normal

Family supports transgenders but not me

My family supports transgenders, but not their own son/brother/nephew

They almost make me everyday to think about suicide and my therapist can’t help me because I can’t find an apartment for my own…

can't handle it

My dysphoria finally hit it’s worst today.. Tumblr blogs I follow have been posting gay p*rn, and I can’t handle seeing it when I’m not like that.. Why couldn’t I just be born me already?

Lost

I have no idea how to have sex with a woman and be comfortable. I don't want to have "lesbian sex" and I don't want to rely on toys. But I also don't want to alter my genitalia. I am so lost.

Mood: Ecstatic

So I just got a facebook message from my brother saying “Don’t ever doubt that I support you” and it was really sweet because I haven’t really talked to him about my transition. Yeah it made me happy and I wanted to share it. :3

New friends

Hey guys. I don’t have a lot of ppl where I live that I can talk to about being trans. It’s still new to me and a big part of my life. Would love to have some cool ppl I could talk with. 
Kik: suckmypizzahard

hesitant about surgery

i want top surgery, i want to go on T, and i want to be able to present myself as fully male in everyday life, but i guess i have a lot of fear about bottom surgery. i’m afraid of trying to do it and ending up with unsatisfactory results…

to me, a big thing is being able to present as male in public, well nobody is going to see what i have in my pants so it’s not nearly as central to my personal transition as T and top surgery, in my eyes.

i like to picture myself as fully male, but i just don’t know if i could ever make my body match my mental image, and i’m terrified that if i tried and it didn’t live up to expectations, i’d be more unhappy than ever. at least right now, it’s like a nice fantasy that hasn’t gone wrong yet.

i can’t be the only one terrified of bottom surgery, right?

:(

My partner claims to be supportive of my transition, but ever since I started this journey she hardly ever touches me and sex is very rare. It was never like this before. What do I do?