I just don’t have the energy to explain her I am a gay transman and am still figuring everything out… Don’t want to jump in a random relationship without being comfortable with myself… Her saying that hurts more than I expected
thelifeofkaiblog said: If your grandma won’t understand your trans status, it may help a little that she will still see you as a masculine “hetero” when you date a guy, in the future. You know who you are, though, and that is worth more than her opinion.
venyal said: I hear you. what people say are just perceptions, and they don’t define you. What hurts is a lack of acceptance and understanding from the ones you love. Find refuge in those who love you as you are. Sending love your way.
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