My boyfriend may not be gay..

My boyfriend says he is bi and loves me. But I see him flirting with women, cis and trans, all the time.

He loved my top surgery, as did I, but now that I'm going on t, I fear my hairy stocky bald self (as all the men in my family are) will repulse him, as he likes androgynous pretty boys.

I still can't take one more day of being misgendered, and ill just have to deal with his disgust.

I am a gay masculine trans guy. He is fem and cis, and people always think he's gay. Meanwhile, I fear he's straight.

[melancholic trans boy, USA]