re: trans partners,

my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. though he already wasn't identifying as a woman when we started dating, he's done the bulk of transitioning (including starting t and getting top surgery) since after we got together. and things are going just fine! if anything, we're closer than ever. some changes take a bit of time to get used to, and there needs to be communication on both sides, but it can work out! i promise!