no one will like me

I am afraid few men will like me because of my lack of penis. I wish I could have all those affairs I always dreamt of but all these vaginaphobia in the gay community is terrifying. I mostly dislike my breasts and cunt. I want to hit on gay guys but they only see a girl. It is killing me.

Clothes, binders and sexual misfortune.

Confession: Some days I feel so pretty I want to wear a cute skirt and crop Top yet still wear a binder. I still am a boy even though I like “girly” clothing it’s just the general public says I can’t be a boy when I want to sometimes wear cute or sexy ‘girly’ clothing.

Binders: I’ve had this crappy cheap loose side clasped binder for about a year now and I’m finally waiting patiently for a new binder in the mail from gc2b should arrive in 3 or so weeks~❤

Misfortune: I don’t know my sexuality 100% but I’m generally mostly attractive to men and I’ve had sex with my *hoo-ha* but I’ve always wanted to try anal but recently I had to have an iliostomy (close to 3months ago) and got my whole colon removed so it may be dangerous for me to have anal with my lover so I’ve just got to accept that. I also have an issue with people calling me a girl because I like having sex with my born genetals and do not plan to get bottom surgery. :/

How to go about that

What the fuck. Maybe because I'm faded but. FTM here I think but then I want to get fit and fuck a girl with my d but want a guy to fuck my pussy. Uhm not sure how to go about that

Wishful thinking

I’m a transman and I really wish my trans girlfriend would give me head at anytime and not only right after I’ve showered :/

Fascinated with ladyboys

i am having fascination on lady boys. keep having lucid dreams bout them. argghhh... it's killing me. I identify as straight transman. Wondering is this normal?

Lost

I have no idea how to have sex with a woman and be comfortable. I don't want to have "lesbian sex" and I don't want to rely on toys. But I also don't want to alter my genitalia. I am so lost.

:(

My partner claims to be supportive of my transition, but ever since I started this journey she hardly ever touches me and sex is very rare. It was never like this before. What do I do?

bottom tech

I'm a top bi guy and when i cyber with my boyfriend, we describe everything like I have equipment I actually don't. While in the moment it doesn't bother me because it feels right, and he tells me he doesn't have trouble getting in the moment with me as far as pretending goes, but after the fact I just get this crushing dysphoria when I think about how I'll never really be anything BUT pretending. I wish technology for bottom surgery were improving faster because I don't think i can do this.

How to tell my wife?

I am so afraid of telling my wife that I want a male partner, even though we are in an open relationship. She doesn’t like cis men and is only attracted to a rare few trans men.

i just wanted her to like me

i met someone who i was instantly attracted to, she knows i’m trans.  i dont know how she thinks about me, but one night we were exchanging photos of ourselves.  she posted a naked one of her–covering up her nipples and with her legs closed.  i wanted to be close to her so i sent her a shirtless photo (i’m pre-top surgery).  and in the back of my mind, when we talk, i wonder if that changes how she looks at me.  (granted our first full conversation when we met was about bottom surgery) but i just feel like i got so vulnerable.  and i just want her to like me back and see these lumps as bags of fat–not the female anatomical word doctors use to label them.

Can't stop hearing it

My girlfriend called my junk a cooter one time over a year ago and she apologized and we both cried for an hour or so. Now we’ve stopped having sex and every time i try to get something going i hear her saying it over and over and i can’t push back the feeling that she doesn’t really see me as a man and the further i get into my transition the more it feels like she isn’t attracted to me and just resents me for bringing her into my struggle. I thought she was going to leave me the other day. That lead to some really bad thoughts.

My junk

recently i’ve been involved in a physical relationship with someone i’ve known since i was 6.  she identifies as a lesbian and has said that she doesn’t know if she can talk about my junk as if its hard (wants to use biologically accurate wording).  i hate this and i feel bad for continuing the physical relationship.

in love with a transman

Im bisexual woman and i think i fall in with a transman . Ive got questions that can not ask him. Does he get periods? Or talking about his sexual parts bothers him or not ??

On FTM p*rn

To the guy who asked about ftm p*rn -
theres always bonusholeboys on tumblr. you have to pay to watch their whole videos but the sneakpeeks are good too. and there is also TransboyNH on xtube. he doesnt have a ton of videos but theyre good and free.

I'm afraid I'll never find anyone

Not just because I’m trans and I think it’d be hard to find someone willing to accept me and love me for who I am, but also because I was sexually harassed and now I’m terrified to be near anyone. Let alone be simply touched by anyone. What if I do find someone but I’m too scared to accept any relationship myself?

Ex-gf wanted to "fix" me

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My ex girlfriend got mad at me when I told her I was trans. This was a few months after we broke up. She said that meant she had never dated a real girl before. She said she was going to "fix" me and sexually abused and raped me. I'm too scared to tell anyone what happened even though I've hinted at it to one of my friends before. I still have to see her everyday at school. I'm starting t soon and am scared she'll do something again.

Hey I just turned trans and I'm wondering how do I meet women?

love-struck-philly:

transmanconfessions:

and I’m wondering how do I meet women? I used to be a very flamboyant sexual energised lesbian and now I’m a scared closed off introverted man. I feel like I’m lying to women if I flirt with them. Help? 

You are not lying to anyone! Keep in mind that by realizing that you are trans, you are embracing who you’ve always been in a new way, not becoming a brand new person. Flirt as normal, and treat women with respect- you probably know firsthand how it can feel to be hit on by a man so make use of your past experience and let it educate how you approach the women you are interested in. If you are comfortable with doing so, you may find some luck in lesbian spaces such as gay bars since you know a good majority of the women there will probably be into what you are packing if things get serious down the line (plus, the LGBT community is a little more likely to know what being trans means). At the same time, respect yourself as well, and don’t put up with anyone who puts you down for being trans or who disrespects your body and own personal desires and boundaries. It is one thing to be uneducated and willing to learn, it is another thing to be openly transphobic and harmful.

If things start getting hot and heavy, feel free to let them know what’s up and go from there. The important thing to keep in mind is that some women will be attracted to people with vaginas but not a male mind, and some women will be attracted to people with vaginas as well as a male mind. If a girl isn’t interested in you because you are a man even though you have the parts she is interested in, try not to take it personally. You can be attracted to a gender separately from a sex. For example, I am a transman who is pansexual but attracted to the female gender. That means I am interested in sex with anyone regardless of their parts and how they relate to them, but more comfortable being in an actual relationship with a cis or transwoman. Hopefully this makes sense! Romantic and sexual orientations are a complex subject with infinite combinations. It is 100% possible to be trans and have a healthy relationship. (Also, if she is interested in someone with a penis, you can always remind her that strap-ons are a thing, if you are comfortable with using one! I personally joke that being trans means I can literally tailor my dick to the tastes of the receiver. I feel like a radical pleasure cyborg and it’s awesome.)

Just like with cis dating, it can take some tries and failures before finding someone you are compatible with, and just like cis dating, never settle for someone who makes you feel uncomfortable and/or who hurts you on a regular basis and is unwilling to work with you and learn how to treat you right. A relationship is a two/multi-way street and requires equal effort from everyone involved. The effort that goes into making it work should not be entirely your burden, you know? Go at your own pace and treat both your boundaries and your ladyfriend’s boundaries with respect, that is all anyone can ever expect of anyone else when it comes to dating. Be yourself! And again, you are not lying to anyone.

Approaches to dating will be different for everyone but this is my personal take and I hope it helps at all. :) Be safe, and good luck!

BJ fantasies

I feel like since transitioning (2 years in less than a month on hormones, pre-op ) I'm open to ALL sexes and identities where as before transitioning I wasn't, what's wrong with me? Im having fantasies giving blow jobs to cis males gay and straight

I watch porn and I want to watch FTM porn

I'm starting to realize that other trans* guys are really attractive. I can't find any. Does anyone have suggestions?

My partner doesn't know about how I feel about my vagina

because I can't bring myself to talk about it. So I put off having sex as long as I can and when we do it, I feel so uncomfortable and empty and I hate it.