This isn't really a confession, but as a partially closeted transman I have a question: Is employment a problem? Is it different getting a job as a transman here in Singapore vs being cis? If so how? I'm a guy with a bachelor's degree and i'm freaking out about jobs. Thanks guys :)
-transdudesg
[Singapore]
A collection of private thoughts from transmen all over the world.
27/02/2015
26/02/2015
sexual guide for trans men
I just thought this would be useful...
http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/01/sexual-guide-for-trans-men/
http://everydayfeminism.com/2015/01/sexual-guide-for-trans-men/
24/02/2015
men can rock floral print too
Men can rock floral print too
[replying to: https://www.facebook.com/TransmanSG/posts/839665122758607 ]
23/02/2015
what to put on tinder?
As a transman who isn't considering taking T or any op yet, I wonder which to put, male or female, on Tinder.
Either I might annoy a lesbian who wants a cis female or I might piss off a straight girl who wants a cis male dude.
-jshlee
[Singapore]
Either I might annoy a lesbian who wants a cis female or I might piss off a straight girl who wants a cis male dude.
-jshlee
[Singapore]
22/02/2015
afraid to come out to best friend
How will i ever come out to my best of best friend ? We've known each other for like our whole lives, like almost ''literally'' i'd known him since when i was 4 years old, total 14 years. However i feel like we had this barrier thing between us, i wasn't really able to tell him anything. I even came out easily to my two other best friend of 7 years and 4 years easily, they seems to be more easy to come out to.
How long am i gonna be keep him in the dark? i've already started transition and it will come one day which he will ask questions, how am i suppose to answer them, i don't want things to be awkward between us. It feels like if i ever come out to him, my whole life would change, things would probably never be the same again.
Yes, i am a boy by birth. My best friends have still been treating my like a boy, i don't need them to treat me like a girl, i just want them to treat me as a normal human being, but not as a boy ! It's even weirder when i am talking to him about relationship, and how much i hope i would get a girlfriend soon, and yes i'm a lesb-trans. He would say like i was more handsome when i cut my hair, and i'd be like, no... but i was never able to tell him the reason.
We go a long way back... and he have totally no clue that i am a trans because i was never girly in anyway, probably because i see myself as a tomboyish girl ( trans ) + lesb , damm that's even confusing when i start to think about it, well we all know there's no fixed gender/expressions/etc
This could go on forever ~
Any FTMs out there have gone through something like that ? with your best friend.
-Juu
[Singapore]
How long am i gonna be keep him in the dark? i've already started transition and it will come one day which he will ask questions, how am i suppose to answer them, i don't want things to be awkward between us. It feels like if i ever come out to him, my whole life would change, things would probably never be the same again.
Yes, i am a boy by birth. My best friends have still been treating my like a boy, i don't need them to treat me like a girl, i just want them to treat me as a normal human being, but not as a boy ! It's even weirder when i am talking to him about relationship, and how much i hope i would get a girlfriend soon, and yes i'm a lesb-trans. He would say like i was more handsome when i cut my hair, and i'd be like, no... but i was never able to tell him the reason.
We go a long way back... and he have totally no clue that i am a trans because i was never girly in anyway, probably because i see myself as a tomboyish girl ( trans ) + lesb , damm that's even confusing when i start to think about it, well we all know there's no fixed gender/expressions/etc
This could go on forever ~
Any FTMs out there have gone through something like that ? with your best friend.
-Juu
[Singapore]
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