A collection of private thoughts from transmen all over the world.
30/05/2014
Those older ladies
i love my gf a lot, she's been through thick and thin with me, however her refusal to accept me as a ftm, makes me fall for an older lady at my work place.
Anti Pink Dot
regarding the anti pink dot sg,
haters are gonna hate. No point having all the trouble to pull down the page when the people who agrees with it doesn't change their views.
haters are gonna hate. No point having all the trouble to pull down the page when the people who agrees with it doesn't change their views.
People who understands won't change their views just because a hate speech is there. So why bother? Chillax. Ignore those you can't be bothered. Instead, spend more time to help those who are less narrow minded to understand and want to know more. Also, spend time building on character and personality because it certainly does change perspectives of people on lgbt community.
My gd friend didn't accept me liking a friend of hers since I am a trans and she is straight. My friend felt that I am not good enough. I was initially very depressed and upset because my gd friend accept me as a trans but dislike me having a relationship with her friend. I decided to focus on changing my character and show that I genuinely love her friend with my heart and soul. My sincerity soon touched my friend and currently she hopes that her friend n I will become a couple.
I believe one day, with sincere and genuine heart, we could touched those around us and make them realise, we are no different.
Skin
I thought you might like it.
It's called Skin by Sixx: AM
Check out the lyrics, its seriously powerful.
<3
Drunk tales
[MTF, 22 y/o]
Random stuff that I do when I'm drunk just for some cheap thrills and laughter:
Was at Herstory a few weeks ago. As usual the queue to the ladies was extremely long so I headed towards the guys toilet only to be stopped by the bouncer.
Me: "But I'm born a guy."
Bouncer: "Yes I remember you tried to pull the same stunt last month. And no, I'm not letting you through this time."
Me: "But I remembered to bring my IC this time. Take a look at my gender!"
*hands over my IC*
*bouncer stares at my IC, look at me, stares at it, looks at me*
Bouncer: "Wah. Have you gone for any surgeries or anything?"
Me: "Nope. No money to afford haha."
Bouncer: "Wah okay you really very zai leh. Okay okay go."
Random stuff that I do when I'm drunk just for some cheap thrills and laughter:
Was at Herstory a few weeks ago. As usual the queue to the ladies was extremely long so I headed towards the guys toilet only to be stopped by the bouncer.
Me: "But I'm born a guy."
Bouncer: "Yes I remember you tried to pull the same stunt last month. And no, I'm not letting you through this time."
Me: "But I remembered to bring my IC this time. Take a look at my gender!"
*hands over my IC*
*bouncer stares at my IC, look at me, stares at it, looks at me*
Bouncer: "Wah. Have you gone for any surgeries or anything?"
Me: "Nope. No money to afford haha."
Bouncer: "Wah okay you really very zai leh. Okay okay go."
Facials
My face is really going bad..
Does any one know any transgender friendly facials in Singapore?
[uglyface, Singapore]
Does any one know any transgender friendly facials in Singapore?
[uglyface, Singapore]
19/05/2014
Love-hate parent-child relationship
Recently there have been a couple of articles that share the last SMSs sent to parents by children who were on board the sinking Korean ferry. They were always ""I love you.""
Can't help but feel that if I were in the same situation as them instead, I might be texting ""I hate you"" to my parents. Not once have they ever cared about the pain and suffering that I've gone through for being trans.
Every day I'm suffering and dying a little bit inside. Yet I know I can't ever talk to my parents about my feelings because they'll just shout at me and tell me that there's nothing wrong with me and I'm just a confused child.
To be fair my parents do love me. They love me enough to do stuff such as providing my allowance and buying me presents for my birthday. But I mean....what's the point sometimes? I don't care about all that. All I really want is for my parents to love and accept me for who I am.
Can't help but feel that if I were in the same situation as them instead, I might be texting ""I hate you"" to my parents. Not once have they ever cared about the pain and suffering that I've gone through for being trans.
Every day I'm suffering and dying a little bit inside. Yet I know I can't ever talk to my parents about my feelings because they'll just shout at me and tell me that there's nothing wrong with me and I'm just a confused child.
To be fair my parents do love me. They love me enough to do stuff such as providing my allowance and buying me presents for my birthday. But I mean....what's the point sometimes? I don't care about all that. All I really want is for my parents to love and accept me for who I am.
16/05/2014
My true gender identity
Niklaus Fluetsch was born female but always knew he was male. Having built a successful medical career as a woman, he took a leap of faith in 2007 after years of struggle, and now lives openly as a man. In a heartfelt and inspiring talk at TEDxZug, he urges more transsexual and transgender people to come out, and for all people to have the courage to be true to themselves.
14/05/2014
International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia (IDAHOT) in Singapore
To celebrate International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia (IDAHOT) , Singapore-based MOVE Community is organising a kite flying day to foster social harmony, friendship and healthy living among all allies & communities.
It's a great way to meet other people, trans* and non-trans* alike, in a safe & wholesome environment.
The event is free and will be held at Marina Barrage (Singapore) on 17 May 2014.
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